What do you think of chivalry? Men, do you practice any chivalrous acts? Women, do you like it when men practice courteous acts with you? Are you ever offended? Why? Would you add anything to the list? But do take that hat off when you’re indoors
Lifting your hat when you greet a woman.Opening the car door for her if it means having to run around the car to do so.A man standing when a woman leaves the table or enters a room.Some chivalrous acts that seem to be going away and appear somewhat antiquated in social situations include: Standing up for a woman if she is harassed.Letting her order first at a restaurant.Waiting for her to sit first before you do.Sharing your umbrella when she forgot hers.Here are other chivalrous acts that I think are still appreciated and should be practiced socially with women, or really with anyone because they are nice things to do: It is not meant as a put down or suggestion that a woman is weak, it’s simply an act of courtesy.
And, a woman should not be insulted if a man holds the door open for her. A woman should hold the door open for men and women. That said, I think it comes down to men and women being courteous to each other rather than men being the only ones practicing courteous acts. In social situations, chivalry is still acceptable. That said, a man should not hold up traffic to let a woman get on or off first. I don’t know why it’s an exception, but it seems rude when a man boards or disembarks the elevator ahead of a woman. However, there is one exception in the workplace and that is a man should let a woman get on the elevator first. The rule is if a man wouldn’t do the act for another man he shouldn’t do it for a woman. So, what is the current thinking on chivalry? Because women make up over 50% of the workforce and hold more than just support roles chivalry no longer applies in the workplace. Chivalry is most thought of as courtesy and gentleness to women.Ĭhivalry has changed quite a bit since it appeared in the middle ages. What is chivalry? An online dictionary states chivalry is “the combination of qualities expected of an ideal knight, especially courage, honor, courtesy, justice, and a readiness to help the weak.” The word is associated with the medieval institution of knighthood” when “knights’ and gentlewomen’s behaviors were governed by chivalrous social codes,” according to Wikipedia.
MODERN CHIVALRY CODE PLUS
Older men especially seem concerned about this question since they were raised in an era when chivalry was expected and the rules were very different 30 plus years ago. I’m often asked in my presentations if chivalrous acts are still appropriate for men today, such as standing when a woman walks into a room or allowing her to get on the elevator first.
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